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How to Build a Swappable Agent Memory Layer: One remember() / recall() Over sqlite-vec, LanceDB, and Qdrant

The store you pick today is the store you'll outgrow. Put a two-method interface in front of it now, and moving from a file to a service becomes a migration you run in an afternoon — not a rewrite you dread.

By Dex Mareno ·claude-sonnet ·reviewed by a human editor ·August 3, 2026

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The takeaway

Give your agent's long-term memory exactly two methods — remember() to store a fact with its embedding and metadata, and recall() to fetch the k closest — and make every vector store hide behind that interface. Then the store is a swap, not a rewrite.
The three stores disagree on everything the calling code shouldn't have to know: sqlite-vec wants a serialized float32 blob and a SQL WHERE with a k = ? constraint; LanceDB wants a plain list and a .where() string; Qdrant wants a PointStruct and a Filter object. They even disagree on what 'close' means — sqlite-vec and LanceDB return a distance (smaller is closer), Qdrant returns a score (larger is closer). The adapter's whole job is to make those three look like one.
Define a common Memory result — id, content, a normalized score where higher always means closer, and a metadata dict — so calling code never branches on the backend. Normalize each store's distance/score into that one convention inside the adapter.
Start on sqlite-vec (one file, zero infra), keep the interface honest with a shared test suite you run against all three, and when brute-force search stops being fast enough, point the same agent at LanceDB or Qdrant by changing one line. The interface is the investment; the store is a detail.

At a glance

sqlite-vec vs LanceDB vs Qdrant — compared at a glance
What the calling code shouldn't know	sqlite-vec	LanceDB	Qdrant
How you insert a vector	serialize_float32(vec) blob in SQL	plain Python list in a dict	models.PointStruct(vector=vec)
How you filter by metadata	SQL WHERE user_id = ?	.where("user_id = 42") string	models.Filter(must=[FieldCondition(...)])
The k constraint	WHERE embedding MATCH ? AND k = ?	.limit(k)	limit=k
What 'close' comes back as	distance (smaller = closer)	_distance (smaller = closer)	score (larger = closer)
Runs as	a .db file, no process	an embedded library, no process	a server or Cloud you connect to
The adapter's job	hide the blob + SQL	hide the dict + where-string	hide the PointStruct + Filter

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The short version: give your agent's long-term memory exactly two methods — remember(content, embedding, metadata) and recall(embedding, k, where) — and make every vector store hide behind them. Store the same shape back from all three. Then the store you picked on day one becomes a swap, not a rewrite: when sqlite-vec's brute-force search stops being fast enough, you point the same agent at LanceDB or Qdrant by changing one line. The interface is the investment. The store is a detail.

This is the piece our sqlite-vec vs LanceDB vs Qdrant comparison ended on — "build so the memory layer is a swap, not a rewrite." Here's the actual code.

Why the interface, before the store#

If you build alone, you will pick the store that's easiest today — for most agents that's sqlite-vec: one .db file, zero infrastructure, semantic recall in the same file as your conversation log. That's the right call. It's also the store you'll outgrow, because it does brute-force KNN only — every query is a linear scan, fast to roughly a few hundred thousand vectors and then not.

The mistake isn't picking sqlite-vec. It's calling its SDK directly from your agent — serialize_float32 here, a raw SQL string there — so that outgrowing it means editing every call site. Put two methods in front of it and the migration is one new file.

The interface: two methods, one result shape#

Define the contract first, in terms of what the agent needs, not what any store offers:

from dataclasses import dataclass, field
from typing import Protocol

@dataclass
class Memory:
    id: str | int
    content: str
    score: float                       # higher = closer, roughly 0..1 — same for every store
    metadata: dict = field(default_factory=dict)

class MemoryStore(Protocol):
    def remember(self, content: str, embedding: list[float],
                 *, metadata: dict | None = None) -> None: ...
    def recall(self, embedding: list[float],
               *, k: int = 5, where: dict | None = None) -> list[Memory]: ...

Two decisions in that snippet do all the work. First, recall() returns a list of Memory — a plain shape with a normalized score where higher always means closer — so calling code ranks and thresholds one way regardless of backend. Second, where is a plain dict of equality filters ({"user_id": 42}), not a store-specific object, so the filter doesn't leak the backend. Keep both honest and the swap holds.

You supply the embeddings yourself (embed() below is your model — pick that first, because re-embedding a million memories is the expensive part). The store only ever sees vectors and metadata.

Adapter 1 — sqlite-vec (memory in a file)#

sqlite-vec wants a serialized float32 blob and does KNN with a MATCH plus a k = ? constraint. It returns an L2 distance (smaller is closer), so the adapter converts that to our "higher is closer" score.

import sqlite3, sqlite_vec
from sqlite_vec import serialize_float32

class SqliteVecStore:
    def __init__(self, path="memory.db", dim=384):
        self.db = sqlite3.connect(path)
        self.db.enable_load_extension(True)
        sqlite_vec.load(self.db)
        self.db.enable_load_extension(False)
        self.db.execute(f"""
            CREATE VIRTUAL TABLE IF NOT EXISTS memories USING vec0(
                memory_id INTEGER PRIMARY KEY,
                user_id   INTEGER,
                embedding FLOAT[{dim}],
                +content  TEXT
            )""")

    def remember(self, content, embedding, *, metadata=None):
        m = metadata or {}
        self.db.execute(
            "INSERT INTO memories(embedding, user_id, content) VALUES (?, ?, ?)",
            [serialize_float32(embedding), m.get("user_id"), content])
        self.db.commit()

    def recall(self, embedding, *, k=5, where=None):
        cond = "AND user_id = ?" if where and "user_id" in where else ""
        params = [serialize_float32(embedding)]
        if cond: params.append(where["user_id"])
        params.append(k)
        rows = self.db.execute(f"""
            SELECT memory_id, content, distance FROM memories
            WHERE embedding MATCH ? {cond} AND k = ?
            ORDER BY distance""", params).fetchall()
        return [Memory(id=r[0], content=r[1], score=1/(1+r[2])) for r in rows]

That 1/(1+distance) is a deliberate choice: a monotonic map from "0 distance" to "score 1," so bigger is always better. It isn't a cosine similarity — it's a ranking-preserving normalization, and that's all recall() promises.

Adapter 2 — LanceDB (memory in a library)#

LanceDB takes a plain list, filters with a SQL-style .where() string, and also returns a distance (_distance). Same normalization, different plumbing:

import lancedb

class LanceDBStore:
    def __init__(self, path="./memory.lance"):
        db = lancedb.connect(path)
        self.tbl = (db.open_table("memories")
                    if "memories" in db.table_names()
                    else db.create_table("memories", schema={
                        "vector": "float32[384]", "user_id": "int64", "content": "string"}))

    def remember(self, content, embedding, *, metadata=None):
        m = metadata or {}
        self.tbl.add([{"vector": embedding, "user_id": m.get("user_id"), "content": content}])

    def recall(self, embedding, *, k=5, where=None):
        q = self.tbl.search(embedding)
        if where and "user_id" in where:
            q = q.where(f"user_id = {int(where['user_id'])}")
        return [Memory(id=r.get("user_id"), content=r["content"], score=1/(1+r["_distance"]),
                       metadata={"user_id": r.get("user_id")})
                for r in q.limit(k).to_list()]

Note where the abstraction earns its keep: the calling code is identical to the sqlite-vec version, but here you'd build an ANN index (tbl.create_index(...)) once the table is large — an operational detail the agent never sees.

Adapter 3 — Qdrant (memory in a service)#

Qdrant is the odd one out twice over: you build a PointStruct to insert, a Filter object to filter, and it returns a **similarity score where larger is closer** — the opposite direction from the other two. The adapter absorbs all of it:

from qdrant_client import QdrantClient, models

class QdrantStore:
    def __init__(self, url="http://localhost:6333", dim=384):
        self.c = QdrantClient(url=url)
        if not self.c.collection_exists("memories"):
            self.c.create_collection("memories",
                vectors_config=models.VectorParams(size=dim, distance=models.Distance.COSINE))
        self._id = 0

    def remember(self, content, embedding, *, metadata=None):
        self._id += 1
        self.c.upsert("memories", points=[models.PointStruct(
            id=self._id, vector=embedding,
            payload={**(metadata or {}), "content": content})])

    def recall(self, embedding, *, k=5, where=None):
        flt = None
        if where and "user_id" in where:
            flt = models.Filter(must=[models.FieldCondition(
                key="user_id", match=models.MatchValue(value=where["user_id"]))])
        hits = self.c.query_points("memories", query=embedding,
                                   query_filter=flt, limit=k).points
        # cosine score is -1..1; rescale to 0..1 so "higher = closer" holds like the others
        return [Memory(id=h.id, content=h.payload["content"],
                       score=(h.score + 1) / 2,
                       metadata={k2: v for k2, v in h.payload.items() if k2 != "content"})
                for h in hits]

Because we configured Distance.COSINE, h.score runs -1..1; (score + 1) / 2 puts it in the same 0..1 frame as the other two. Change the metric and you change this one line — inside the adapter, where it belongs.

The payoff: swap in one line#

Every adapter satisfies the same MemoryStore protocol, so the agent is written once:

def build_memory() -> MemoryStore:
    return SqliteVecStore()          # ← the only line that changes
    # return LanceDBStore()          #   embedded, at scale, with ANN
    # return QdrantStore()           #   shared service, heavy filtering, ops

mem = build_memory()
mem.remember("prefers terse answers", embed("prefers terse answers"), metadata={"user_id": 42})
hits = mem.recall(embed("how should I reply to this user?"), k=5, where={"user_id": 42})

Start on SqliteVecStore. The day brute-force latency stops being fast enough, uncomment LanceDBStore (stay embedded) or QdrantStore (go to a service), migrate the data once, and ship. The agent code doesn't move.

Keep it honest with one shared test#

"Swappable" is a claim until you prove it. Write the test against the interface and run it against all three — this is what catches the day a store's default metric isn't what you assumed:

import pytest

@pytest.mark.parametrize("factory", [SqliteVecStore, LanceDBStore, QdrantStore])
def test_recall_ranks_the_right_memory_first(factory):
    mem = factory()
    for text in ["prefers dark mode", "lives in Lisbon", "ships on Fridays"]:
        mem.remember(text, embed(text), metadata={"user_id": 1})
    hits = mem.recall(embed("what UI theme does the user like?"), k=3, where={"user_id": 1})
    assert hits[0].content == "prefers dark mode"      # same top result everywhere
    assert all(0 <= h.score <= 1 for h in hits)        # same normalized frame
    assert hits == sorted(hits, key=lambda h: -h.score) # higher = closer, always

Three assertions, three backends, one contract. That parametrized test is the difference between a memory layer you can move and one you only hope you can.

The one-line takeaway#

Don't choose the perfect store. Choose a two-method interface — remember() and recall() returning a normalized Memory — and let sqlite-vec, LanceDB, and Qdrant compete behind it. The right store on day one is almost always a single file; the right architecture is the one that lets you leave it without a rewrite. If you're still deciding which tier of memory you even need before you get here, start with the three kinds of agent memory — this layer is only the long-term one.

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Frequently asked

Why put an interface in front of the vector store at all?

Because the store you choose on day one is optimized for day one, and agents that get used outgrow it. sqlite-vec is perfect until brute-force search stops being sub-second (roughly a few hundred thousand vectors); then you want LanceDB's ANN indexes or Qdrant's shared service. If your agent calls the store's SDK directly — serialize_float32 here, a Filter object there — that migration touches every call site. If it calls remember() and recall() instead, you write one new adapter and change one line. The interface costs an hour now and saves a rewrite later.

What two methods do I actually need?

remember(content, embedding, metadata) to store one memory, and recall(embedding, k, where) to fetch the k closest, optionally filtered by metadata (a user_id, a namespace). That's the minimum that covers personalization and retrieval. Add delete() and a batch upsert when you need them, but resist widening the interface to expose store-specific features — the moment recall() takes a Qdrant Filter object, the abstraction has leaked and the swap is gone.

The stores return different 'closeness' numbers — how do I hide that?

Normalize inside each adapter. sqlite-vec and LanceDB return a distance (smaller = closer); Qdrant returns a similarity score (larger = closer), and the exact range depends on the metric you configured. Pick one convention for your Memory result — we use 'higher score = closer, roughly 0..1' — and convert each backend into it: score = 1/(1+distance) for the distance-based stores, a metric-appropriate rescale for Qdrant. Calling code then ranks and thresholds one way, forever.

Won't this abstraction cost me the features that made me pick a specific store?

Only the ones you expose through it, and you choose which. Keep the interface to remember/recall/delete and you keep sqlite-vec's single-file simplicity, LanceDB's embedded ANN, and Qdrant's shared-service ops as deployment choices, not code choices. You do give up store-specific query tricks (Qdrant's geo filters, LanceDB's time-travel) at the interface boundary — so reach past the interface for those, deliberately and in one clearly-marked place, rather than letting them spread.

How do I know the three adapters actually behave the same?

Write the tests once against the interface, run them against all three. Store the same ten memories, recall with the same query, assert the same top result and that scores are monotonic and in range. A shared test suite is what makes 'swappable' true instead of aspirational — it's the thing that catches the day LanceDB's default metric differs from the one you assumed.

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